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pudding

04-06-2006 @ 8:34 PM

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i'll give that lil lot 5minutes!!

anyway,your husband is mentally abusing you,by constant lil put downs,it all ebbs away at any self confidence you have,and trying to make you insecure. now youre loosing all that weight (well done btw!!) hes sh*tting it,and hes the one feeling all the insecurity,..so hes stepping up a gear

please dont let him grind you down- id like to call him something,but i think i will be more positive and say DaveChungs got the right idea in the "how to treat a lady"

chin up and keep us posted with the rest of your weightloss

luv puds xxxxxx

jesse

04-07-2006 @ 3:32 AM

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Joined: Jan 2006

Sounds like my situation a month ago. I left only for a few days. after all my partners crap. The point was that i always said id leave - but never did.

one time i did. he woke up and listened.

You do not desearve that. YOU know its wrong. HE knows its wrong. the more you take it the more hell give it. you need to stand up and make sure he realises your new body comes with a new attitude of "i dont take your bullshienhousen anymore".
GIve him an altermatem. say "we both have things to learn. ill give you enough time to realise you have said something nasty, and enough time to sincerely appologise .. for the first month. after that. you need to stop completely. other wise i need a break from this. "
and then LEAVE. stay at a friends.

you need to stand up to yourself. make sure he knows it hurts. and then hurt him the worst you can by - taking away all his control. and leaving him to himself.

good luck girl !
we are here for you.. if it worked for my white ass. it will work for you too

xx jesse



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