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Discussion Topic: Help/advice for 1st time Cialis attempt please...
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03-09-2010 @ 4:33 AM
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Hi all. Basically after looking into it I think Cialis seems the best option for me, but if I could get some advice from those in the know it would set my mind at ease a lot.
I'm a young healthy guy (mid 20's) and I have always had a good sex life with my partners except for 1 thing, performance anxiety in the early stages of relationships. This always go's away after a few times and sex turns out great, but to be honest, I'm loathe to tread over this familiar and depressing territory again, and I want something that's going to stop the problem.
To put it bluntly, I don't want to be walking around with a massive stiffy for 3 days solid. Not really practical. But I do want to know my old fella's gonna be there when I need him, if you know what I mean. From what I gather this is how Cialis works, ie: you need sexual stimulation to kick things off, and until you get this stimulation things remain (relatively) calm down below. Is this how it works?
Like, I said, it's mainly anxiety and subsequently is quite a personal thing, so it would be better if it wasn't obvious to my prospective better half that I was taking something - Hence my reluctance for a constant 3 day boner! I figure like in the past the anxiety will subside quick and I won't need the pills after that, just don't wanna screw things up before they get started. Yes, I realise I shouldn't use it secretly, but this time rather than bumbling through those akward early stages I wanna hit the ground running.
So, will it allow me to have a weekend of sexual activity without any nerves getting in the way?
I read in some places you can only cum once and then you are pretty much done for the day. Is that the case? I hope not. I really do.
If you take it on a friday night or early saturday is it liable to last the whole weekend?
I realise it's not the same for everybody, but in general, have you guys found this stuff to be effective? There is nothing wrong with me physically at all, just early stage anxiety, and I'm hoping this is the solution I'm looking for.
Anyway, I'm going on and on, please give me the lowdown if you have time. Thanks.
Kind regards.
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derekp68 |
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03-09-2010 @ 10:28 AM
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hello
well EEP, i cant really give advise on Cialis as I decided not to take that, Im alot older than you and unfortunaltey have suffered ed problems for a while. I was researching what one would be better suited for me, and I went for Viagra, as I like yourself did not really want to go 36 hours with an erection and had read up quite alot about it.
Since Ive taken Viagra now a few times, it has worked wonders, so Im sure it would work getting your confidence back up in no time.
You can also chat with the doctors on here, they offer some brilliant advice and know all about the different meds.
Good luck finding something to work for you my friend.
DP
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pod17 |
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03-09-2010 @ 11:18 AM
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Hi mate,
I take Cialis, and I'm in my late 30's. IT doesnt give you a stiffy for 36
hours straight - it's just that you can have sex as much as you want or
can in the normal way. The most I've gone is 4/5 times in a weekend.
You won't walk around with a boner non stop - so dont panic.
Give it a try and tell us how you get on. You're lucky it only happens at
the beginning of a relationship - I understand why, it's nerve wracking
proving to a lady you've got what it takes. But you're young, and your
confidence will grow. I bet you won't be needing this stuff for very
long.
Good luck mate.
cheers, P
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derekp68 |
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03-09-2010 @ 1:59 PM
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hello
Apologies if ive misinterpreted some information Ive read on these different forums, it seems I have not really understood how cialis works.
So EEP, i would still advise to speak with one of the doctors on here, or even at your local surgery - they will best advise on what is suitable for you.
But yes, we all have these confidence issues in the first stages of a relationship, but hopefully in time you will feel much better and enjoy a healthy sexual appetite.
DP
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03-15-2010 @ 11:29 AM
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the thought of having astraight stiffy for 35 hours is exhausting and tiring! So yeah EEp, don;t worry, you will be able to switch it on and off in that hour period and you will feel great.
Give us an update!
Tommy
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derekp68 |
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03-16-2010 @ 11:46 AM
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hello
Apologies for my misinterpretation...I read in another forum that a gentleman had gone for 36 hours...so I presumed he meant he had an erection for that long. Which is why I was so put off from taking cialis!
But if Id known it was a med that you can turn off and on like a normal erection, I would have researched further!
Im taking Viagra and quite happy with that, but just read in another room about everyday cialis....does anybody know much about it?
DP
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squeamish |
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05-06-2010 @ 10:36 AM
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You need to be sexually stimulated for it to work. The active ingredient in
the med relaxes the tissue and muscles inside the penis, causing them to
widen and allowing blood to flow in.
When sex is over and blood flow to the penis decreases, your erection will
go away.
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