i am a woman, asking you men for help and advice!my fiancee had major surgery 7 yrs ago and he told me that for the first yr after he had to take cialis,due to nerve damage from surgery, but that he very rarely takes it anymore..i am soo supportive and could care less if he takes it. problem is, i know that he is taking it every other day, even when we dont have sex, or if im not home.i dont understand why he wont tell me he is taking it, and why he is taking it regularly (almost every other day). he has no time to cheat, lol, we are together every night, and live together also..... but i am an insecure worrier, and dont know what to think. anyone know why he would take it so often and why he wont tell me about it?
Understand, a man does not feel good about himself when his equipment is not working. It is a great thing just to wake up to morning wood. That natural activity keeps the penis healthy. Without that it shrinks over time, and that is terrible for the self esteem too. I know it sounds silly, but it is a fact of male life. Accept it and enjoy the benefits.
I can understand where you are coming from. If you feel brave enough, simply ask him. I am a firm believer in having everything out then wondering and worrying sometimes for nothing.
He could just be taking it so that if the time arises that you 2 will get more intimate, he is ready. Or maybe you approach him about getting more intimate more often... and you will get your answers.
hello Im with Tommy on this one, you should just try to talk to your partner - if he feels he has to hide taking it from you, then perhaps it would be better to get everything out in the open so you can share this issue together. It will hopefully make you closer and as Tommy says, more intimate with each other, which will obviously benefit you both. I wish you every good luck possible. DP