Posted By Discussion Topic: premature ejaculation   DT 12-01-2009 @ 9:52 AM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 Anybody have a way they keep premature ejaculation at bay? tommy32 12-03-2009 @ 12:55 PM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 Mate you seem to be having a shocker of a time in the bedroom. Well with premature ejac, maybe masterbate before to give you more time, the first round is normally too exciting and explosive, the second round will be longer usually. hope that helps.... BrianB 12-07-2009 @ 10:30 AM                           reply Member Joined: Oct 2009 how about this: As soon as you feel you are about to come during sex itself, stop thrusting, lie still, think of something else. In other words, take yourself mentally out of the situation. After two or three minutes your arousal should have dropped, so you can then go back to thrusting - but take it slowly. Slow and steady will help you last longer. If you feel yourself getting too aroused, then slow down the pace of intercourse or withdraw altogether from your partner. B DT 12-09-2009 @ 9:42 AM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 never thought about masturbating a bit before so my gun isn't fully loaded.   nice one tommy.