Posted By Discussion Topic: Some help for   ps3 04-02-2010 @ 4:06 AM                           reply Member Joined: Apr 2008 I being dealing with Ed for quite sometime and I understand how difficult it can make ur life.   Well, couple of weeks ago one of my best friends found out that he is suffering from Ed too and although it is a mild case he is devastated and depress but that isn't it,    His wife is dealing with the situation in a unexpected way.  She is batting the situation and doesn't understand what is going on and why. Therefore she has being a total bitch to my good friend making everything even worse.   I don't know how to help him.   Should I sugest to him going to a proffesional with his wife so they both get to deal with this traumatic changing situation or should I stay away? tommy32 04-07-2010 @ 1:05 PM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 The situration sounds intense and the shame of it is, is that it can all be easily rectified.  Have you or your friend thought about using ED meds such as viagra/cialis etc.  If you have a look at the ukmedix website you can find all the info you need and you should even suggest your friend comes on here to have a look for himself. As for getting involved with the wife... i can't say, do you think you have a place to tell her something, it's all in how you put it after all.  Sorry I can't be of more help mate but it's a tough call... Best of luck, Tommy squeamish 04-15-2010 @ 3:56 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 Sounds like your friends got to explain to his wife what its all about. She's probably scared he doesnt fancy her or something and thats why he cant get it up. He needs to calm her insecurity first. Once that's done, if she isnt a complete bitch, she will support him through this difficult period. And they need to discuss meds lke cialis or viagra, and how ED isnt the end of their sex life for ever. pod17 04-19-2010 @ 12:09 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I feel sorry for your friend, and thank god that I've got an understanding girlfriend. Its bad enough suffering with ED but then to have the person you love make you feel responsible it completely unfair. It's totally out of our control. The only way that we can control it is with drugs like viagra or cialis (which Ive been using). The fact that they're married is a shame, because if she was that shallow I would dump her I'm afraid. squeamish 04-19-2010 @ 2:14 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 id say get some counselling. And hopefully the counsellor would open up the discussion about meds. Professional help might not be a bad idea. cheeky55 04-19-2010 @ 4:55 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 you said its 'mild' so whats the drama?? just tell him to pop a viagra, and they'll never look back. all that psychobabble is a con and messes you up further in my humble opinion tommy32 04-20-2010 @ 10:58 AM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 it doesn't hurt to ask advice, perspective can help a lot and allow you to see things that you thought you never would. Tommy ps3 09-13-2010 @ 2:14 PM                           reply Member Joined: Apr 2008 First, I want to thank all of you who somehow gave me a sincere and honest advice; however, cheeky55 wasn’t helpful at all, instead cheeky is a total ass who obviously takes Viagra as a recreational drug. It doesn’t matter how mild or freaking strong the problem is, still a freaking ed problem you ahole! pod17 09-13-2010 @ 3:39 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 yeah, well - we're all different. He is called cheeky after all. But seriously, what happened to your mate? How did you resolve the situation? It's a very tricky one. Did he sort it out with his wife, or is she still being a total bitch?