Posted By Discussion Topic: Please allow me to introduce myself   dabadab 05-19-2010 @ 1:41 PM                           reply Member Joined: May 2010 And give me ur advice. First of all, im really happy to have found this forum, and talk to people who can relate to ones problems. I told one freind and my mother about my problem, my mother is very supportive, but its difficult to talk with freinds about it. He didnt really know what to say, plus its embarrasing and you dont want people to think less of you. Now, im 22 years old, having a disease called secondary renayds, which my little general suffers greatly under. So ive been forced to accept that i need external help for the rest of my live sexually. I off cause realized this problem in the most painfull way possible, falling in love with a beautifull girl in the age of 16. Me left heartbroken by the side of the road feeling like a freak of nature who lost the genetic lottery. Since then i've tryed everything to cure my condition naturally(detox cures, fanatical diets, fasts and so on), so now 6 years later its time to conclude mission failed. But then now here we are, everyone else has had alot of sexual experience and im practicly still a virgin. Which puts alot of pressure on me, and things has sort of developed into a mental thing. Im scared of it. I have tested cialis and viagra on my own with succes, so the last couple of months ive been out and about (the last 6 years ive pretty much avoided girls). This has resulted in me passing up 3 chances with 3 different girls at the last moment, because ive just been so uncomfortable with the whole situation and pressure. By passing up I mean, faking falling asleep in the middle of the foreplay, making up a fake girlfreind and a fake guilty conscience and stuff. So I dont know how to get over that? But i guess i only have two options, just do it, or finding a girl i really like and tell her all about my situation. Now my other worry about these meds is if you use them regularly, will they stop working at some point? I have just tested out the cialis daily pill, which i think works poorly compared to normal cialis. On another note how seriously should it be taken not to drink alcohol while takin these pills? pod17 05-19-2010 @ 6:37 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 To your last question first - I think not using alcohol with ED meds should be taken very seriously, if you really want and need the meds to work to their full potential. Your story is heartbreaking, I do understand, although my issues didn't start until my early 30s. I was able to enjoy a very normal sex life in my teens and 20's. Of course not being able to have sex as your maturing would be very debilitating and psychologically very destructive. Great that you've not been shy about getting meds, and that you've found success with them. Now it seems like the pschological hurdle needs to be overcome. And that, is something that every man goes through when they first start having sex. The insecurity and shyness. And it's just something you need to force yourself into. What could be on your side is the fact that the girls that are interested in you are a bit older and therefore probably more forward. So let them take the lead and go with it? Be brave mate. A good and satisfying sex life awaits, Cheers P dabadab 05-19-2010 @ 7:04 PM                           reply Member Joined: May 2010 Yes I know the effect suffers from alcohol, but I was thinking if its directly dangerous? Early 30's is also a early time to face these issues, must have been tuff for you as well. How long have you been using meds? Why do you think the girls that are interested in me are a bit older ? tommy32 05-20-2010 @ 6:35 PM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 hey there, there is no point taking ed meds with alcohol, it just wont work as well for you buddy so it's kind of a waste. I feel for you and am impressed that you were able to talk to your mother about all of this.  support in any form is better than no support. If you have any other questions keep em coming. Tommy cheeky55 05-25-2010 @ 12:32 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 it dependshow bad ur case is and how much alcohol your drinking. if cialis and viagra are working for you, then get on with it. you dont need to tell anyone about it, just do the deed. youve just got to talk yourself into it. why are you faking falling asleep when theres a naked girl in your bed? if youve got a hard on, the meds are working, just do it. TerryM 05-26-2010 @ 11:13 AM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 yes i agree, i do think that for so long, i over thought everything, almost adding stress i didn't really need! Anyway, I bought some Cialis to get me on my way and when i am used to it I am going to get some prilligy. Will update accordingly. T oyster 05-26-2010 @ 10:35 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 Have you been given the go ahead to use PE and ED meds then? TerryM 05-27-2010 @ 9:48 AM                           reply Member Joined: Sep 2009 I have read that there is no conflicting evidence saying you can't. I was going to start the ed meds first and consult the ukmedix doc about starting the priligy... T pod17 05-27-2010 @ 6:00 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I'll be interested to hear the uk medix's doc's take on adding priligy to cialis. I'm just not sure if they will cancel each other out, or enhance the experience entirely (wouldnt that be amazing...) So let us knwo Terry, Cheers, P