Posted By Discussion Topic: Fear of Sexual Failure   zeb 07-29-2011 @ 2:41 AM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 is the main cause of impotence and ED. true/false? i think its true. pod17 07-29-2011 @ 5:31 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I think one of the major reasons I started having difficulty was I was living with peak stress levels and I couldn't relax or focus on anything else but work. But yes, I suppose roped in with that was a fear that I wasnt going to be able to perform, so it got to the point where I would just avoid it altogether and use my tiredness from work as an excuse. Cialis has definitely given me my confidence back - it must be partly psychosomatic. But at the same time I'm performing better than I ever have and for longer, so that's got to be the strength of the meds alone. pod17 08-01-2011 @ 6:23 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I think my partner and I are stuck in a bit of a sexual rut - its good, but sometimes I wish she was more sexually exciting. I know she has a fear of being too spontaneous in case I havent taken cialis, but when we are having sex she's not very adventurous. Maybe the fear of sexual failure for many men really stems from their partners not being sexually stimulating enough? zeb 08-01-2011 @ 8:32 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 women - and men - need to ask themselves some questions about if they're doing enough to spur on sexual urges in each other. problem is everyones so goddam tired or lazy that this doesnt happen v often. psychological desire is not the same as sexual excitement. A man who badly wants to get his rocks off mightl find nothing to get excited about in the prospects infront of him. So if ur plagued by impotence you should definitely review your   techniques for initiating and building sexual excitement.   there's enough literature out there for inspiration. research and learn. RockHard 08-10-2011 @ 9:51 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 a very big part of your relationship and connection is your ability to allow yourselves to be vulnerable in the presence of each other. Im so glad that I can talk to my wife about it, she was really pleased I'd shared with her the decision to take Cialis. After I surprised her on it last weekend!