Posted By Discussion Topic: Seminal Retention   zeb 07-29-2011 @ 2:43 AM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 anyone on here trying it? pod17 07-29-2011 @ 5:44 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I know you're supposed to be able to separate ejaculation from orgasm, but quite honestly Ive always been to lazy to try this. It's supposed to increase your sexual potency and clear your mind right? I just found this: No matter how intensely pleasurable it may be, male ejaculation is nothing more than a spasm of delight lasting only a few brief moments. It is a local release confined entirely to the genitals and the muscles of the pelvis. A release is a negative phenomenon --- you simply lose vital energy. Orgasm is a totally different animal. Orgasm is rejuvenating and restorative. It impacts the entire body, mind, and spirit. Unlike ejaculation, orgasms may be repeated again and again for an hour, or more, without any sense of depletion. Once a man learns to savor and extend the journey of arousal by withholding his discharge, it can provide him with a lift-off that is designed to propel him into ecstatic states of higher consciousness. By refraining from genital release men can learn to substitute orgasm(s) for ejaculation. Once this skill is mastered, the habitual male sexual routine of ejaculating with every orgasm will be seen for what it is --- sheer lunacy. So we just need to contract and control our muscles at the right time? I just dont think I've got the willpower! pod17 08-01-2011 @ 6:27 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 For anyone interested in trying this out...youre supposed to start by practising control of the muscles, like this: The main muscles involved are those which surround the urinary tube at the bladder opening, whose normal action is to cut off the urinary stream. You can thus master control of these muscles by cutting off the urinary flow several times each time you empty your bladder. Other muscles involved lift the testicles up into your body and surround the base of the penis. If you try to lift your testicles and the back of your scrotum straight up into your body, you will feel these muscles contract. After you have learned to tighten these two sets of muscles at will (the cut-off muscle first, the lifting ones next), you can strengthen them by contracting them firmly for a few seconds several times daily. Since nobody can tell that you are doing this exercise, you can easily perform it while you are riding to work, finishing your morning coffee, or at any other convenient, easy-to-remember time. After you have learned to control the muscles involved, clamp off seminal discharge by tightening those muscles one night during your final surge. This action does not interfere with other sexual movements in any way, nor do such movements cut down the efficiency of the retention technique. Finish off the episode exactly as you would if you were letting go, but keep the muscles clamped around the bladder outlet from the beginning of your final surge until ejaculation is complete. zeb 08-01-2011 @ 8:45 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 The main danger of semen retention is "stagnation".  Stagnation means that "things aren't flowing", "are stuck"... and there are consequences to that such as:     - anger,     - over-aggressiveness,     - depression,     - sexual obsession, compulsion, addiction. so FYI though semen retention is advertised as a key to physical and emotional health, quality relationships, and spiritual profundity - it actually also carries great risk of destruction along all of those lines. RockHard 08-10-2011 @ 9:39 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 I think its most natural to let go when you feel the urge. If that's what the body wants then you should let it do it. Having said that its something I would attempt if I wasn't so hung up on things not working properly and disappointing my wife. Now that I'm trying Cialis I think I'm just going to go with the flow.