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Discussion Topic: stressed out!!
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jenny12 |
10-28-2009 @ 12:06 PM
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Can stress be the reason why I don't have sex drive ( libido)? I'm not so sure if I lost my sex drive completely,. My sexual life was always pretty normal and good enough for me, but ever since I got promoted at my job three months ago, I don't even want to be touched by my boyfriend... if its not stress then I don't know what is wrong with me!
did anyone have this problem before? if yes, I would love to know how you overcome it. please.
This message was edited by jenny12 on 10-28-09 @ 5:04 PM
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10-28-2009 @ 5:52 PM
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Jenny,
don't drive yourself round the bend about this, it will make matters worse. When you are stressed, your body literally becomes chemically imbalanced. It is a natural thing, the best way to describe it is when you get an adrenaline rush, that is the chemicals in your body changing.
Anywa what i am getting at is that you cant help it if your libido shrinks. Everyone is different when it comes to handling stress. Some people eat, some people don't eat. Some people will lose their libido when they are stressed.
I have been stressed many times with juggling kids, husband, and everything in between. I had a nonexistant sex drive.
You will see from this forum that i have posted lots about my experiense with intrinsa and my life has changed 360. I hope you look into it and if you have any questions talk to us on here, there are lots of ladies in your position!
Rose x
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jenny12 |
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11-01-2009 @ 10:03 PM
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THANK YOU SO MUCH ROSE! Im not happy that you went through the same situation but it feels good to know that I'm not the only person with this problem.
This message was edited by jenny12 on 11-1-09 @ 11:30 PM
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Rose1 |
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11-02-2009 @ 2:39 PM
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Jenny,
no worries, I think there are millions of women who go through the whole stress thing. Even men suffer. My hubby, when he gets stressed not only will sex be the last thing on his mind but her gets a little moody. It doesn't take much for me to pull him out of the moody blues which then starts a chain reaction to heading to the bedroom.
I think we all weork in cycles, ups downs, round abouts etc. We all need to recognise that and try to get ourselves out of it.
Have you got some Intrinsa on the go? It works wonders for me!
Rosie x
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11-02-2009 @ 2:46 PM
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Hey ladies,
While we are on the subject. When i get stressed I am a total bitch especially to the people around me who I love the most. Yesterday I was a total ass to my boyfriend and he didn't deserve it and becuase I am a hard headed chick, It took me ages to apologise which ruins a whole day. However when the smog was lifted on the whole thing and it passed. once my stressy patch left i was pretty randy so it comes and goes.
I think also our time of the month has an effect on our libido no?
Ferny
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