Posted By Discussion Topic: Another overweight person   Sasha@ 07-28-2011 @ 9:18 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jul 2011 I know there are probably lots of people joining here everyday going HELP ME LOSE WEIGHT PLEASE!!! but ive really had enough, as nothing I do on my own seems to work. my body seems to be resistant to everything! i am 25 ,5ft 7 and i am 98kg(15.6 st, 216lbs) i go to the gym once a week and i also go swimming sometimes ,but the weight will just not shift. I'm getting totally desperate. Some of my friends had 'puppy fat' a few years ago but now like butterflies they're all completely thin and gorgeous. somehow ive stayed frumpy and fat! Idont feel like i eat very differently to them. we we go out for dinners we also seem to order the same thing - i mean not a lettuce leaf but not two orders of fries either. but im huge and they're not - WHY?!?! so im thinking i should take a pill to sort this out once and for all. Any advice grately appreciated. Thnks!        WhittleAway 08-01-2011 @ 5:10 PM                           reply Member Joined: Jan 2010 I totally understand your frustration! We all have different metabolisms, we all have different habits. But I know what it feels like to be 'the fat one' in a group of friends. But you're on the right track now. Xenical is working for me - perhaps try it and see if its for you? It takes discipline, but it sounds like you are ready to change your lifestyle anyway.