Posted By Discussion Topic: herpes or not herpes?   ps3 07-28-2010 @ 1:23 PM                           reply Member Joined: Apr 2008 Well everything started about 3 weeks ago after I had sex with a beautiful girl from a friend’s wedding. I’m not going to lie! It was amazing but more amazing was the irritation I got on my penis the very next day! Suddenly she wasn’t so beautiful to me anymore, dirty bi%$#. This is going to sound very extreme but I even try to put vinegar on my penis to kill any bacteria or whatever the hell was irritating me so much but nothing worked. Now I’m starting to see little bumps and the skin is really red and inflamated.  What should I do? Honestly I get really embarrassed to go to the doctor or tell anyone… some help please! mixer 07-29-2010 @ 12:12 PM                           reply Member Joined: Apr 2008 if it is herpes it usually goes away within 2 weeks BUT the herpes is a virus so it stays in the body trough your whole life.