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Discussion Topic: I can't stop thinking about him.. :(
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secretcrush |
01-09-2007 @ 11:02 AM
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I cannot get this guy out of my mind. We started working with each other a few months ago. We talk a lot at work and outside work, we have hung out a few times outside of work at my house, sometimes at his. We always watch TV. Sometimes theres conversation, other times it's like awkward silence sort of thing since were just getting to know one another.
I didn't instantly think that he was gay, but I always get this "feeling" when I am around this guy. We have talked about girls and everything, but he's never brought up having a girlfriend or sex. One time we were talking about the girls at work, and he mentioned something like, "The girls arent very cool but the guys are alright." When he said that it kinda stuck out to me.
Ever since I started to think he may be gay I haven't stopped thinking about him, honestly all the time. It's really doing my head in because I want to just flat out ask, in a subtle way, if he's gay, but don't want to blow my own cover. He really doesn't have any of those steretypical gay behaviors. He seems like a normal guy except for this "feeling" I get when I'm around him.
I like to think he thinks the same about me but I just dont know. Whenver we hang out we always ask about each other's schedules, sort of like when is the next time we can hang out together. At work he always seems to go out of his way to pat me on the back, like when he's leaving, or we haven't seen each other in a few days. I haven't seen him do it to any of the other guys though.
What do I do about this crush that's driving me crazy?
If i confront him then Im i might lose everything.
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presley |
01-09-2007 @ 11:42 AM
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ohhhhhhhhhhhhh it does sound like he likes you !!
I'm the worlds worse at advice though & tend to be too clingy too soon with men ( I'm A chick btw !! ).
I'd just continue how you are & see if he does anything like sit closer to you when you are on a break etc !!
Why not buy A mag with A subject in you know you both are keen on (like cars) & ask him which one he likes in the mag that way you'll get closer to him & he might plant you A kiss !!
Just A thought hahaha!! What do you think ???
Tc & let us know how you get on ,
Sam x
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secretcrush |
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01-09-2007 @ 2:25 PM
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good idea!
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sohoboy |
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01-09-2007 @ 5:16 PM
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He sounds divine....you go girl!!!
Le marais in gay paris....where dreams are made of!
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presley |
01-11-2007 @ 1:26 PM
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HEY SECRET CRUSH !!
ANY NEWS ????
TC SAM XX
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sohoboy |
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01-18-2007 @ 2:15 PM
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secret crush - do you have any news...? have been wanting to hear about this for a while - please keep us updated.
Le marais in gay paris....where dreams are made of!
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